We spend our whole lives striving to find our better half, watching other people live, and half the time, while ignoring the reality that life is wizzing by arround us, while we waste our time narrorating our stories. Figuring out who we are.
We spend a lot of time just narrorating who we are, who we want to be, and why we never became who we spent thousands of restless nights hoping we'd become. We, in reality, became us.
However, this is not what I want to rant about today- no today we talk about boundries, limitations, chains, limitations. Whatever you please to call it.
Why?
Why do we decide to set pointless limitations on our "freedom"? Religion? The way you were raised? Rejection? Thousands of reasons could be pinned, but what is the most dominate? Examples you ask? I have tons.
We have an age restriction on age and relationships. Why? Well on one side we have that pedophiles need a stopping line. A "Woah there buddy, that is not okay" but think of it in the opposite prospective.
There is a girl. She, is 17, underage. She, is also extremely mature for her age. Everyday she goes ti highschool, her senior year, and almost shoots herself. She is surrounded by hundreds of kids who are so stupid and immature. Mentally younger than her. She has tried, but can't fit in, and certainly can't find a boyfriend who doesn't want sex. But before you judge like "Typical girl" No she is more mature than that. She wants sex, like all people, but she wants a established relationship. She wants to make love. An unlikely relationship evolves. Both partys try to ignore the whispering, chanting, itching, screaming, yelling crying, burning, passion-love- that surrounds the two. It was an accident. And she tries to get hime time and time again, and he turns her down, until he can no longer take it because he loves her; he kisses her back. Months later of the 'forbidden' relationship, they make love. They are in love with plans of marrige. They, are eachothers one reason to breathe. A few days pass, they are caught. The headlines write of the 27year old and the 17 year old. They hiss words that are lathered in hate and bloodsucking judgement. Of the man being a 'pervert', 'disgusting' and when the girl cries that he never molested her, she is 'manipulated' and 'confused'.
Why? Why is it so wrong? Well I understand, because at first, we are all disgusted. But as they grow on you, as you hear her talk of tender touches and the up most carefullness. The absalute agreement. No manipulation, only love. 10 years a part in days on the earth, but not a minute apart in love, hope, and mentallity. We have ruined it because it is uncommon, because it is diffrent? Because at first glance you think it is disgusting?
Limitations.
We limit ourselves from food. Drinks. Sugar. Cigaretts. Porn. Everyday things. One day you must ask yourself why. And if that answer is not enough, ask another, and if punishment, rejection, or the hateful words of another be the reason, you must re-evaluate your limitations.
I am in no way saying not to limit youselves from drugs. I quote myself here "...and if punishment, rejection, or the hateful words of another be the reason, you must re-evaluate your limitations." Illegal drugs are illegal for a reason. They ruin your life, change you, make you helpless. That is a reason to create a boundry.
Picture of the Day:
None today, Im afraid.Quote of the Day:
"Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like"-Will Smith
Song of the Day:
Soul to Squeez-Red Hot Chilly? Peppers
Wake up, the house is on fire,
-Mirror Mayhem-
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